Building self-confidence and self-esteem
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世界本身就是一个巨大的草台班子,中值定理具有普遍性。
大多数人也都是普通的，精英和底层是少数的。人们总是过度地关注顶尖的精英。请不要拿自己和精英去比较，普通人一辈子也没办法达到精英的高度，精英的背后是几代家族的底蕴，基因加上自身的努力。你凭什么觉得你十几年的努力能轻易地超过人家几代人几十年的努力。虽说这也不是绝对的，因为存在运气时势这个变数，但这不是我们能掌控的。
Ridicule and criticism can sometimes motivate people, as no one is perfect, and reflecting on one's shortcomings and mistakes is necessary. However, ridicule and criticism can also undermine one's confidence. Because the way of them is often comparing you to others. In the World, there always is someone better than you. Then, if you often compare yourself to others, leads to a lack of confidence. Once a person loses confidence, they feel insecure, anxious, lack initiative, and may even become self-destructive.