人生信条 (Life Principles Philosophy)
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我的人生信条
牢记两句古训：
- 己所不欲, 勿施于人 - Don't impose on others what you don't want for yourself
- 以德报怨, 何以报德 - If you repay evil with kindness, how will you repay kindness?
自我修养 (Self-Cultivation)
- 尊重他人：不要强迫别人做自己不愿意做的事
- 明智待人：善意要给予值得的人, 而非那些恶意相向者
做真实的自己 (Being Authentic)
- 无需盲从他人 - No need to blindly follow others
- 无需讨好所有人 - No need to please everyone
- 无需对所有人都友善 - No need to be kind to everyone
- 可以有任何情绪 - It's okay to have any emotions
成长 (Growth)
- 专注自我提升 - Focus on self-improvement
- 不必在意他人评价 - Don't worry about others' opinions
- 循序渐进地成长 - Grow step by step
- 坚定自我价值 - Stand firm in your self-worth
- 无条件相信自己 - Believe in yourself unconditionally
面对烦恼 (Dealing with Troubles)
如果一件事情烦恼你，就想去解决它，而如果解决不了，那就做出计划想办法解决它。
如果一个人烦恼你，就想办法远离他，而如果远离不了，那就无视他。
人生态度 (Life Attitude)
我为爱我的人而存在。
就算人生不是很精彩，我也要勇敢的姿态。
Key Philosophy Points
Ancient Wisdom Applied:
- Practice reciprocity in relationships
- Be discerning with kindness - give it to those who deserve it
Authentic Living:
- Stay true to yourself without seeking universal approval
- Embrace your emotions and responses naturally
Growth Mindset:
- Focus inward on self-improvement rather than external validation
- Build unshakeable self-confidence through consistent action
Problem-Solving Approach:
- For troublesome situations: solve them or make a plan to solve them
- For troublesome people: distance yourself or ignore them
A personal manifesto for living authentically while maintaining wisdom in relationships and personal development.